Get clarity! I need someone to pray that I get my babies back. Winter consider the future. But her circumstances forced her into being separated from her son. Of course, if the diagnosis reveals a dangerous form of depression, its probably in the best interests of the child for the other parent to have full custody. Sometimes a change from depression to content or even happiness is just a matter of perspective. You can go to most churches and ask to talk to the minister. i live in Calif. Where do you live? It could also be a symptom of depression. I was lying in bed sobbing because my son will be turning 4 in just a couple of weeks. And one day we will all understand. For an emailed notificationof new articles,enter your email address here: Copyright 2023 Linda Jo Martin, site owner, By continuing to use the site, you agree to the use of cookies. What can I do for my grandson ? I feel such an emptiness inside but Im too numb to cry. So Im giving in and doing exactly what they want. But now this is what the Lord says: Do not weep any longer, for I will reward you, says the Lord. While Id admit my addiction had me beat , Im in recovery now. Now my grandchild is in the system and I am told I am not grandma. We have to have something to hold on to. My sons were adopted by my husbands twin(fraternal not identical) brother and his wife and she happens to be an attorney in the same town as the cps case and get this in the SAME DEPARTMENT!!! Trauma can affect you physically. unwillingness of family or friends to continue talking about the loss. Take walks, or whatever you most like to do. Ive heard of multiple men who killed themselves, thinking that if they did, CPS would go away and leave their wives and children alone. I cannot believe there are so many woman who know exactly how I feel! First, it is important to talk to someone who can understand what you are going through. jonvaughnrealtor@gmail.com. NY would not take the TN medical insurance. This is bigger than fighting for which address is our childrens residence. Let us take a look at the various mental health challenges related to losing custody of your child. I began to drink a bit. You have to find your place now. But there IS a way for you. Do it right away as the lawyer needs to notify the county of the appeal quickly, and before the children are adopted. They changed their minds after our grandson was in DSS custody over the 2 year mark. Your kids need you to fight for them, and for their kids and so on, we must change laws NOW. Call me at eight 1 six 6 four 5 four 1 five 2. I still am supervised today when I see my babies. I highly recommend her., Molly and her team exceeded my expectations on every front, she is the best you can hire! document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Fill out the form below with any case details you can include and we'll be in touch shortly for a case review. I have a house full of baby stuff and a career as a nurse that I feel I have to put on hold because mentally I cant bear to go back to work and be around other people who get to keep thier children. Its all Ive ever known. The pain of losing a child is singular. If you report to a CPS supervisor that is nothing; the supervisors are worse than the caseworkers, most of the time. our Mombecause she knows how to make us feel better. Try to communicate with the other parent/guardian so that there is an open line of communication.. Seek out professional help to manage stress through therapy. What God promises is that if we will surrender everything to him, he will work it for good, not best but good. My son is extremely, shockingly gone. A 2008 study found that even 18 years after losing a child, bereaved parents reported "more depressive symptoms, poorer well-being, and more health problems and were more likely to have experienced a depressive episode and marital disruption." While some parents did improve, "recovery from grief was unrelated to the This last time on tuesday he showed up with a gash in the side of his cheek and bruising on his head and temple. Has your court appointed attorney prepared for court? "I am so sorry for your loss" is a good example. Your hurting because like me you care. I am hopeless. But both my kids were cared for my son was in daycare . I didnt listen to him..two days later they was gone.. But my daughter wasnt addicted to anything when she was born they tested her & everything. I know that at the end of my journey here on earth Ill find my everlasting home and family in heaven. He will want to know what kind of a person you are will that be an angry, bitter, unforgiving person, or an altruistic, compassionate, and caring person? Depression: Changes to your relationship with your child may leave you feeling sad, hopeless or depressed. Helping children grieve the loss of a pet. So I understand losing your faith. mind you this happened a month and 10 days after my oldest was ripped away from me. They treat me like dirt and I am a good person!! Even now one of those daughters refuses to have anything to do with me. Grief is often associated with circumstances, but depression is not. Do it for yourself, and for your children. My case worker is not flexible for team meetings. I dont believe anything is ever gonna change with the CPS department so I see no use in trying anything any more. There are reports from others that the children are not in complete agreement, Those reports are repressed even though our new Case Manager is the one bringing the truth to light. I EVEN HAD THE CASE WORKER TELL ME SHE WILL NOT SAY ANYTHING GOOD ON OUR BEHALF.BY THE WAY OUR CASE WORKER CUT ON HERSELF. Then they terminated our rights. Hes the reason Im going through all of this pain. I never got to know my son he was taken from me an hour after I gave birth to him. Along with attending a Bible Believing church with uplifting music; nothing has helped me through losing my children and every other tough time in my life is reading Psalms and Proverbs from the King James Bible. A woman with hollow eyes approached us and handed out a flier. They usually don't even have a criminal record and have never been to jail. Thats a good idea to take your son to your mom. Think of the positive things you can do with your life now-help others, volunteer, find a Belief System, get a good job that you love, find love (if you havent already), join a support group, join a church, adopt a pet, etc. Im doing what I can to help the greatest number of people at one time. I was the victim of domestic violence by my second husband and CPS handed my kids over to their biological father. I know what it is like to feel hopeless what it is like to be spiritually dead, to have a clean mind and not know how to react to life. Sam, sorry to hear they wont let your son testify. Consultations and fees details. Will you be there for him at least make an offer of being there for him? All of these feelings are normal. 7 Things I've Learned Since the Loss of My Child And Thou art Dead, as Young and Fair. My 6 babies are my world my life theres no me without them. I miss them so much and love with all my heart. Read your bible. Me, you and all the Mothers and Fathers on here are ALL in that same dark place with you! Now my daughter gets a message from her worker saying her visits are suspended even though her attorney told her that visits will continue as usual while we are in the appeal phase I feel they are retaliating because of US reporting what my granddaughter told me I struggled reporting because I was worried for her safety My grandson left the home because of an incident where he wet the bed and the foster dad charged at him and he fell and hit his head on the wall There are other instances of things that have occured in this home but what Im asking what can my daughter do Especially because she is worried about her childrens safety. In this article we have discussed the mental health issues that parents struggle with when they lose custody of their children. I am at fault for my situation. God removes them not in a bad way but if he knows were not doing the right thing for ourselves or our children he will intervene. Loosing my children the way it happened cause me to loose my trust in the all mighty God. Thorannaslayer, what a sad testimony. Seniors may experience severe grief-related symptoms stemming from loneliness and a loss of a sense of purpose. There is strength in numbers, if we continue our fight after every No we may get That One yes that could find our kids and bring them home .. There may have b. I cant be evicted for inability to pay rent. I turned every sad feeling I felt into motivation to get my kids back and prove they should not have been taken in the first place. Sleep may be difficult for a while. My kids were taken in 2000 They were 9 and 10. Alice, Im sure youre not the only mom who doesnt want her kids back, so I wouldnt call it abnormal. I pray to God but it seems whatever I try, its not working. The effects of grief after the loss of a mother are different for everyone . My mom is supposed to be adopting them I guess soon but we dont talk at all and shes had a lot to do with the reason I dont have my babies. We need to defund them and change laws. With all my heart to you I say I NEVER gave you up! Work closely with your legal team to make a custody agreement that works for all three sides- you, partner, and the child. You can join a support group for people struggling with divorce or custody issues or even one that has to do with people coping with depression. Child Welfare, LXXX(6), 749-768. They are once again in foster care. Thank you for this.. Denelle a word of hope for others going through the pain. Suicidal Ideation also our Facebook Group and Facebook Page. With no hope of ever having a life. Thats the past, and now Im happy and through the trauma. I had been clean off opiates for 2 yrs when I started illegally using Suboxone. I dont know how to survive all this. Amber, so sorry you were depressed after your baby was born. This is not the end of the story. There are so many places that God promises that if we will only trust him, he will not leave our side, as in Deuteronomy 31:6 Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee. Best of luck stay strong. Eventually the truth will come out and everyone will know it. This country is being destroyed by these greedy self righteous monsters. 2. My new born son was just taken from the hospital from me when he was 4 days old hes 4 weeks today. They wouldnt let me leave and knew I would fail their expectations which I did and last month they took my two children from me. Proper nutrition and sleep will help you recover faster from grief by reducing stress hormones in the blood. Depression After the Death of a Loved One Losing a Child Increases Risk of Mental Illness. dear jaded feather, They are my world and life without, just doesnt work. Your children will come again to their own land. I will pray for you. They can do whatever they want whenever they want. I am on here to find some way to fight this, get info on how to fight, and do it. 3 years he had been to my house and he knows every nook and cranny of my house. Depression can run in families. This always helps me. two days later CPS was called on me. And we grandparents and other family members separated from the babies as well go through situational depression. We may have fallen into the trap but we can get out of the trap and learn from the terror weve been through. Ayla, you can ask for a better visitation agreement through family court. All because he trusted Someone he barely knew and pawned some things that were stolen,but my husband had no knowledge of it and was aressted I was devastated my first and only love the man Ive been with for, my kids been in foster care since august 2014 i had post pardum depression and i didnt have family support my kids dad were incarcerated for violation of probation due to domestic violence i am bipolar and stopped taking my medication due to caring for the kids i had a newborn and a 18 month old cps told me that if i do what they ask i will get them back in 6 months i did everything and it is not good enough they always find something negative to prolonged the case i am overly stressed and worry that i will loose my kids forever and i will be devastated and will loose my mind i would not have no reason to live. Thank you. Many of us have little or no money; those who have money, spend it all trying to fight their own battles before realizing that this is a world-wide epidemic. The fact is that people often feel numb as if everything around froze, and time slowed down. I wouldnt wish this pain on anyone! CPS had been called on her before we had the chance to get it all cleaned up. It is advisable that you meet with a physician to help you figure out what is wrong, they can direct you to various mental health professionals. Its very traumatic for the child and parent. May God Bless You for reaching out to the broken hearts bring hope to all! Like I told my baby, They cannot keep us away from each other for ever. One of Gods promises is found in Romans 8:38, 39 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor hings present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Lost my only child 1 year ago. He will want to know you. Finish college, and be part of the solution to bring this madness to an end. my daughter has shown up with marks as well that were not simply from them being kids. Im beyond sad. 75219. I live in Ventura, Ca! Share your pain. Thats a laugh. When my child was taken by CPS at birth, over 20 years ago, I was extremely depressed. I dont know how much longer I can take this. I have calmed down my complaints some for now, because the State is actually cooperating with us some. The tide may be turning, but it may be too late for our family. Whether youve been diagnosed, are undergoing treatment, or youre simply struggling with symptoms, there are implications for your life personally and professionally. Read this: Who Will Prepare Your Case? 1 hour! I suffer from anxiety now that I never had once before. Start your own movement. What do we have to Lose. She was 3 1/2 years old, yesterday she turned 6, and I havent seen her in over a year. Write a letter to your lost child. It is vital that you take care of yourself. I am no longer allowing people to mind control my kids into believing that I do not love them or want to care for them. I am so glad i am alive! Children who experience parental loss are at a higher risk for many negative outcomes, including mental issues (e.g., depression, anxiety, somatic complaints, post-traumatic stress symptoms), shorter schooling, less academic success, lower self-esteem 5 , and more sexual risk behaviors 6 . All the best to you; I hope everything works out well and hope you will write again to let us know whats happening. Let that truth be that their mom has always, always loved them. I ended up relapsing on heroin and when my mom found out she called cps on me. Pray for me please! I had a bad alcohol and heroin problem. You may be more prone to viral infections, such as colds. Thats a good way to look at it, Shirley. Each birthday, Christmas, Easter, Valentines, or just because, I buy a little something that reminds me of the kids & I put it in their trunk. Im appealing the termination. Child custody, access and parental responsibility: The search for a just and equitable standard. The more they take from me, the less I have to lose. Your anger could stem from the perceived loss of control over your child, or feel that decisions are unfair or unjust. Maybe by gift-giving from afar, and showing some compassion to his mom by giving to her too. Much love!!! Losing your mother at any age can be a. My addiction is not her weight to bear and I refuse to ever let her little lips have to tell someone that she doesnt remember her real mother because she was only 2 yrs old when her mom died of a heroin overdose. Why would my depression affect child custody under Texas law? My heart is beyond broken. Its torture. My case is the worst case I know and it makes people sick to tell them what happened. Nothing I could have said would have made any difference if He did not soften their heart. Please notify their (not yours) attorney. If you experienced a miscarriage or stillbirth, the death of a young child, or the passing of an adult child, few people will understand your pain. cps should not exist the superior family law governs especially your childrens history the minute this courts make a mistake that causes your child harm they blame you , everybody we all need to be strong the cps court in san bernardino just closed my case because i told them i would jump their hoops but i was not signing anything they wnted my signature so they closed the case i awaitto have some document statin so. And before them females and before them our dark skinned extended family. Linda: I dont want to post anything else after this. Some of the procedures have changed, such as allowing the children to be more involved in the process, if they want to. No response. Although you should never feel ashamed of having PTSD from domestic violence, you should recognize its signs and seek treatment right away. Best of all, you have the Lord in your life best helper, healer and comforter ever. Just remember to keep moving, keep your heart pumping, and know that it will have a positive effect on your mood. The divorced parents had joint custody of their three children and equal parenting time. I am in arizona. You gave her everything by doing that-you did NOT give her UP, you gave TO her. XOX. I am always alone im used to it now. I have 4 boys and he is the only one with substance abuse and anger issues. Be sure to find a person or people who can share your grieving the death of a child with you. I was un fit to care for my children. My daughter was put in a psychiatric hospital, and she was going to take my daughter to my mother. its harder then i thought. If you will notice it is very rare for a CPS (by whatever name) to go after the rich and powerful. My name is laura wright , my son was taken from me , hes now two months old im so very depressed I need guidance on how to handle this situation please help me .. Laura, please sign up for our message board so you can get feedback and support from the other parents there. Comb their hair and yell at them to go brush their teeth. Moving forward after losing the custody of your child can seem impossible but it is a necessary step. Are able to sympathize with your situation, Have experience handling similar cases and situations, and. If I lose my kids forever, I dont think Im living They are my life! I have no means of fighting this legally, except to pray that some how, some way a solution presents itself or I can find someone who will take payments or work for free. Remember the story of Joseph in the Bible who got sold into slavery? Let them know that whatever they say is okay. Ill keep you in my prayers. It hurts. Create . Hi. Do you have a lawyer who can help you regain custody of your children? Gods going to fight for all good parents who have had there hearts ripped out by all of the many rotten cps agents! My kids never needed anything even if my mom had to help from time to time which she did often without me asking. (Anything I say here, is nothing compared what I have written to Childrens Division Supervisors, politicians, and legislatures, so I am not worried about my phone number.) A lot of adopters are open to this. ive allowed depression to take over but i know i have to push forward and face whats ahead. I know that the way the case was handled was completely wrong but what can I do about it? designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com. I have been battling this now for 6 months i have no family in TN besides my father who is too sick to help i have few friends. I still have hope to get them home but it almost seems futile. Kenneta, I got my baby back from CPS after eight months but my ex-husband used the CPS case against me in family court and lied about me in court documents. Grandparents may initially experience overwhelming feelings of denial, shock and numbness. Dogs can form emotional attachments to people and to other dogs. Then, when I wanted to ask them about any personal or private matters they just forwarded calls and e-mails to my caseworker! "Broken Wing" by @WrittenByWill We were an hour from being discharged and they stole him. And no I dont know that because I dont know what they were told. They told me he was not to be left alone with my kids so I made sure he wasnt ever left alone with them. It is temporary!! You should not be alone right now. Last year they asked me IF I would let my son move in with me and take my grandson and help my son raise him. I realize that this is one of the most traumatic things that a mother can go through. Your family and friends need to know that despite your intense pain, youre going to get through this. Thank you, Shirley I do understand the need to move on. Talk to your attorney about filing for the appeal. My heart is breaking. Learn mindfulness, focus on the PRESENT and the FUTURE. God would never take someones children away especially when they are loved and cared for. The Texas statute on Conservatorship, Possession, and Access covers many details regarding decisions on custody and visitation, but dont expect to see depression mentioned in the law. He and the babies mother were young and on drugs. Its not over until the fat lady sings! You can STILL do things for them, get a chest for each one and fill it with things they love, have stars named after them, etc. Im now 49 they are 29 and 30. I have been waiting to get the job I worked so hard for but because I have this founded case on my record cps has to verify and sign a paper and I have been waiting 2 months. Pls go to my website and click on SIGN THE PETITION. Surely I have behaved and quieted myself, as a child that is weaned of his mother: my soul is even as a weaned child. .. so here i stand barely alive, barely breathing broken hearted all beat up bruised scared bitter old tired and may i mention so dangerously misunderstood. Ask your therapist about seeing a psychiatrist. I will never believe that God took my children from me. Comment * document.getElementById("comment").setAttribute( "id", "a191bbf4e5bb4475cbd5dd594dbc4ba1" );document.getElementById("gccc9d9fd6").setAttribute( "id", "comment" ); Notify me of follow-up comments by email. The State makes such a WAR ZONE for our families. Believe me, I know I had 2 children taken by my ex without giving me a fair chance to be a parent to them. The other one is hopelessly brainwashed and her mind is poisoned against me probably with lies that I cannot even imagine since she will not tell me why she wont talk to me this is called Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS). Consult a naturopathic doctor about any natural depression solutions and supplements you plan to use. If you got your situation published or on TV maybe the adopters would see it and agree to let your grandchild visit with you. Im told I still have the job they are just still waiting but this cps worker I have dealt with I swear is out to get me. When Youre Dealing With CPS, Where Are Your Friends? Like with any separation, the pain is extreme for a long time but it eventually subsides and you can go on living, and create a good future for yourself. Their names are Tommy Lucian and Goldie-May Marie. That's why }, { hello my children were taken by dhr and two placed in Jefferson county and one is still in Blount county but when cps came to }. The best course of action for a parent is to present him or herself as a cooperative and reasonable adult who is trying his or her best to work with the other parent, to maintain an open line of communication regarding the children, and to maintain an air of cooperation when it comes to making decisions about the children's well-being. CPS took my whole life. What Is The Best Skin Care Routine For Large Pores. I went to court today for a continuing restraining order which was denied. Hello I see Im not alone my thirteen year old bipolar daughter tried to kill me and herself this past Monday and today I find out Dcfs has reached my daughter and told her they will pick her up once the 72 hour hold is up or when the doctor releases her from the psych hospital. I was devastated !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like dying inside. Divorce. I pray and talk to God and gave him full reign over myself and my kids. I dont know what else to do. I later found my older son- age 28- on his knees in my room screaming and crying also. Of course you feel lost! cps also wanted to go to my sons job where he works as helper to the sensei at karate and were about to remove him there. I hope this helps God Bless You! So, where are they? Even my lawyer said, as long as they follow the law we will win. You DO have a future. The judge through out all evidence my lawyer was not ready. I am now his legal guardian! Lots of feelings and stories which lets me know I am not the only one but is there a case or grpup to fight here in arizona. If you or your acquaintances need help, this article may be useful to you. She didnt feel so good when they started in on her. I would be taking this information to my state legislator and to the county board of supervisors or county commissioners. Please pray for me and my babies as I will all of you. Keep doing the next right thing. Wow our situation is so similar. I cant let go of the anger I feel and no one to tell. but dont know if I can get enough people to sine.. does anyone eles have one going? I was able to nurse which avoided withdrawal after she was born. If you would like to know, call me. My lawyer said she help me go to the supreme court and the document she filed so she could go to the supreme court came up missing. That started because of a couple of high-profile cases where PD women killed their children. Out of 2 years he spent 161 days with me and 71 of those were overnights. My husband & I did everything the court asked of me & still they took my kids. We are ALL here. Kovalesky, A. It is not necessary to resort to the help of alcohol or drugs, also it is not necessary to appoint to itself serious drugs. It feels like everyday gets worse instead of better. Anger expressed in a healthy way is my defense mechanism to keep going on with life. So God could give and he could easily take. Im hanging on by a tiny thread. Im almost at my deadline and i dont know what to do i rarely see my children even though i am suppose to see them for an hr every wednesday. I been praying for myself that all this will be over. When I seen them again a worker just laughed about it. The loss of a pet may be your child's first experience of deathand your first opportunity to teach them about coping with the grief and pain that inevitably accompanies the joy of loving another living creature. Just do it and make it wonderful. What can I do to motivate this case worker to reunite us all faster. The next stages include denial, bargaining, guilt, anger, depression, and, ultimately, acceptance of the truth, allowing the person to return to their normal life. I said go ahead he said daddys been hitting u again huh thats why we cant hug u b/c u hurt to bad and cry its okay to leave daddy we wont be mad.. I wanted But guess what! 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